Michelle’s Very Personal Blog

Nemo Testana
nazzt1@sympatico.ca
Niagara, Ontario

Nemo contacted me from Ashley Madison & he seemed genuine.

Before we started talking, I sent him my document explaining that if he ever feels like we aren’t suited to continue, that he should be respectful of me & himself & let me know instead of just disappearing.

Nemo said the following: “I must say a well worded document and can agree with everything you’ve said as I’ve experienced that myself……a lack of respect and common courtesy.”

I called him & I wasn’t really sure if I wanted to continue with him because all he did was go on & on about his wife & how she was mean to him & his kids & how he was only staying with her because of the kids.

I don’t fair well with men who stay with their wives & use the kids as the excuse, all the while damaging the kids because then they grow up learning it’s okay to not be happy, & to suffer & sacrifice for everyone else.

This behaviour shows that the person doesn’t love themselves, & they don’t feel they are worthy to have a happy life.

Obviously Nemo’s life is his life & he can do whatever he wants with it, I just choose to be around people who actually love themselves, respect themselves, they raise their children to do the same, etc.

I wanted to talk to Nemo one more time before I decided what to do, & Nemo said he was coming over near me for a meeting & he would get back to me with the date.

Not only did I not get a date, Nemo just disappeared & lied about his behaviour. I mean really, if he knew he tended to lie, why even bother saying he would let me know if he was no longer interested.

Just thought you should know how he acts if you are going to get involved with him.

Michelle