Frank
imtheone31@yahoo.com
519-562-3780
Frank responded to my ad looking around for something to do on New Year’s Eve.
First he wanted to IM with me & I told him no, I don’t use the Internet to replace real conversation. I speak on the phone & then meet people if all goes well.
He gave me his number, but something told me he wasn’t someone I wanted in my life, because he had briefly mentioned wanting a picture in one of his e-mails, & while seeing what a person looks like is important, I don’t deal with shallow superficial humans.
I sent him my file I sometimes send to people telling them some of my simple expectations…
Honesty, someone who will tell you if they are no longer interested instead of running away, people who are secure with themselves, etc.
He wrote me back saying that’s fine, but he wants a picture first.
This told me all I needed to know about Frank, so I told him that while I have no problem sending out a pic, since this is all he seems to care about, we aren’t compatible & I wished him all the best.
This is the lovely response I got back from him…
“Thats fine! just as I figured you’re the type that looks for fault rather than trying to get to know someone with that huge requirement list of yours!!! LMAO!!!
You better be prepared to live a single life with that attitude.
Get off the computer you have been rejected way too many times as it seems! this time you did the job for me and thanks.”
I’m very happy that I trusted my intuition & took the extra time to screen this guy. He clearly can’t handle being rejected, even when he shows his true colours, & instead of just accepting it, he has to bash me & put them down. I am ONLY seeking people who have learned how to grow up, don’t act like little children, & have above average relationships skills. That’s both as a friend or a partner.
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LOL, I really should search the net before dealing with these guys. This guy is already on my site & he’s soooo special, he’s going on here again.
Frank is 41 years old by the way.
After sending him a letter I have written up to read over about my expectations regarding honesty & respect, this is what he had to say…
“Oh I noticed it now but whatever it is you can tell me here or call me. I dont like games like that having to open another file just to read your expectation! I thought it was only gonna be about watching that movie. I got expectations too but I wont send a seperate file for someone just to read that!!! its rediculous!
Sounds like you have gone psycho with all the disappointment and rejection you have faced with internet meeting but I can tell you this is noway of dealing with it. Ask someone else if you dont believe me.”
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No Frank I don’t need to ask anyone permission for how I live my life. Clearly Frank is one of those humans that is a follower & not a leader. That’s fine it’s his life, but leaders like me do their own thing & don’t ask permission from the masses.
Then he wrote…
“Trust me I already called you off with that previous email…… like I said as a result of so many rejections you have gone psycho! o by the way do us both favour and don NOT reply ok? LOSER”
So instead of Frank just saying “no thank you”, he had to be a mean spirited little child.
I can see that in the last few months Frank hasn’t changed his personality at all to being a nice person.
This is exactly WHY I send out that file before calling people, because I don’t want to waste my precious time talking to a person on the phone for an hour or longer only to have them disappear because they aren’t secure enough within themselves to be open & honest & say “I’m no longer interested Michelle.”
Then if they get angry at my letter to them, that speaks even more volumes about their true character & I am ONLY seeking very secure emotionally stable people who are above average in communication & relationship skills.
Michelle